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Sunday, July 17, 2011

Our Second Year-Quite a Pair!


Paradox, Pair of dice, Pairs, Pears-

In our second year of marriage, we really did learn how to be a "pair". We truly became The Haney's, and I loved hearing it. I got used to my new last name, and we established great routines. We realized that we really were a pair, and a great one. About this same time, we completed a personality profile, and found out some things about ourselves. The descriptions of the personalities are below, and it turns out that I am Sanguine-Choleric: After much reading, it is very much true. And then Bret is Phlegmatic-Melancholy. These personality styles compliment each other very well.

.1. SANGUINE : Sanguine is a sociable person. they laugh for the hard days,wise words when squeezed by the burden, creative, enthusiasm, and always have the energy to start. Sanguine love to be popular. They have a lot of friends. They love to talk, to perform, help each other and they always curious. Sanguine love to be children forever.

2. CHOLERIC : Choleric is a strong person. they have a strong leadership.They are faithful, brave, and have the freedom to be on one's own. Strong-willed and assertive, goal oriented, well organized, and they don't really need friends. They always be the superior one in the emergency time.

3. MELANCHOLIC: Melancholies is a sensitive person. depth to see the heart and soul of life. Artistic to appreciate the art.They are toughtfully, analytical, serious, and have a talent. they are perfectionist, so they love details.

4. PHLEGMATIC: Phlegmatic is a peaceful person. they are always stable, patient, and have a compassion for the other. They always keep clam,when the other was in confusion.they are humble, silent, controlled, good listener, and always happy with their life. They always be the mediator, and easy to get along with.

These personality styles made our "pair" even stronger. Bret is the calm to my storm. We each have our strengths and weaknesses, and they play very well on one another. I am glad to know that our pair is strong, and has only become stronger over the years. We know what each other needs, and wants, and when we don't, we work to figure it out.

In our second year as we learned to be a pair, we established some great routines, some of them- if I make dinner, Bret did the dishes. I was still going to school, and so Bret was working hard, including Saturdays, which were great cleaning days for me. These were also the days when Bret came home, it was quite evident that I hadn't talked to anyone all day, and it is very important to get my words out. We learned how important it was to be dependent on one another, as we worked hard to accomplish goals and truly showed one another how much we loved one another.

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For Day Two: Bret will get a Pair of Socks to remember how important it is to be part of a pair.



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